I love the idea of meeting a man and falling in love at first sight. I

Published Thursday, 16th Jul 03:21 BST

I love the idea of meeting a man and falling in love at first sight. I know that once I find this person he will be my one and only partner and that it will be forever. I will get married with this perfect man and bear his beautiful 3 children. In this dream there is no blind date involved. No awkward getting to know talk followed by a wet kiss and too tight hug.

However I have several girl friends that seem to think they were born to torture me by sending me on as many awkward dates as possible. Once I had to be a speed dating partner for one of them just so she would not feel embarrassed to do it on her own. I sat there feeling very self conscious and uncomfortable while it seems she had the time of her life.I don't know howI am supposed to find this dream man and fall in love if I spend most of my evenings running through the city on another blind date or speed dating.

I am not the type of girl who enjoys meeting up with these playboy types that move from one female to the next. It seems like a line up to me. Hello nice to meet you, here's a handshake a kiss and a hug and goodbye. On to the next girl in line. I don't believe there is even any time in there allowed for getting to know someone much less falling in love. This can not possibly be the way that I will meet my partner.

I have decided I will not go along on another blind date, speed dating or online dating site again. If I am seriously going to find my mate I have to take things into my own hands. I will only see men that truly interest me and that are looking for the same thing as me. Men that are ready to settle down and make a commitment. A man that will come to my door with flowers in his hand and a friendly hug. A man that will take time to know the real me.

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